In a previous post, we outlined some overarching principles to guide our thinking on courtship. Now we begin to lay out a practical model for the courtship process.
Step 1: Make A List
In Alice in Wonderland, Alice has an exchange with the Cheshire Cat that goes like this:
“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to go from here?”
“That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat.
“I don’t much care where—” said Alice.
“Then it doesn’t matter which way you go,” said the Cat.