In the past week we’ve covered 4 of the biggest regrets of the dying.
If you missed them here’s part 1, part 2, part 3, and part 4.
Today we reach the last, and maybe the biggest.
The fifth regret is that they gave up too easily.
That marriage was worth saving. It could have been saved. But…
I know I could have made that business work. But…
The girl of my dreams turned me down the first time, and I should have tried again. But…
I got turned down on my book proposal/funding request/job interview, and should have been more persistent. But…
The ones who live big, and really get what they want are the ones who refuse to be denied. They’re the ones who remain undaunted in the face of rejection, obstacles, difficulties, and conventional wisdom.
At the end of life, you really feel the weight of not giving it another try. You recognize the foolishness and shortsightedness of letting the excuses and rationalizations carry the day.
What are you quitting on? What have you given up on already?
Go back.
Try again. And then try again. And again.
Whatever happens, don’t let yourself get to the end and wonder, “what if?” What if that NEXT try was the one that broke the dam. What if you were inches from gold, and one more swing of the pick would have hit the mother lode?
Refuse to go quietly into that good night!
You CAN repair that relationship.
That business can succeed!
Your book can get published.
She’ll go out with you if you’re persistent.
They’ll give you the job if you refuse to go away.
Let’s live lives that leave no room for regret!
Leave a comment below with an area where you’re going to refuse to give in! Let our community of champions cheer you on!
There are numerous occasions during life when we are bumped, bruised, and knocked down. This is a part of sharpening our skills, and strengthening our resolve and determination. God has blessed me with 60 years on this earth, and I continue to learn how to get back up.
I have recently started a new venture, its hard work and progress is slow, but I will not quit, and I will “never give up”.
Big THANKS again, Scott!!!
Wow Ben! Thanks for blessing us with the insights of your many years of experience. It’s so inspiring that you are engaging in a new venture at the time in your life when many people are “hanging up their spurs.” That’s rock solid!
Could you imagine what the world would be like if we all truly believed in ourselves to achieve never giving up? It’s interesting how your mind set changes when you are open to change….I know that there are several things going on in my life that is trying to distract me but it won’t cause me to give up…I think that God brought me through a path to a place in my life that quitting is not an option. If I quit I will never know what is on the other side. The greatness he has prepared me for….I do know that it was the turtle that won the race…not because he didn’t want it bad enough but his legs were not as young or long as the hare….but his pace was consistent and he celebrated the disciplines of continuing till he got to the end. Age brings wisdom and wrinkles! LOL
Just imagine. Proud of you for having such focus and eliminating distractions. The tyranny of the urgent has robbed many of their destiny. You’re a winner Diana! You’re going to cross the finish line!
Well said, Diana!
Thanks so much Scott for sharing these with us. I have written the 5 and am in the process of writing affirmations for each that I will read daily. I too will have these regrets one day unless I take action now so when that day comes I can say “I went for it and I didn’t quit and I did it!” You not only fanned the coals that were smoldering in my gut, you poured gas on a flicker that is now a bonfire! God Bless you and your family.
You’re welcome! It’s so humbling to know that you have been blessed by the series. I can’t wait to see your story unfold.
Awesome!! Thanks so much!
Wow! Well, I’m not going to give up on my business. Even if I wanted to God wouldn’t allow me, lol. I’ve had no joy since I got started some time ago. I do something each day even if it’s small as deep down inside I know something has to give at some point. Thanks again for sharing. The entire series has been great..
I’m glad to hear that you’ll never quit but I’m concerned to hear that you have had “no joy.” The journey IS the prize. Have fun. Make each day an adventure. Revel in the process. Re-read the post on gratitude and appreciating what you have. (http://scottrossonline.com/the-five-regrets-of-the-dying-part-3/)
You’re right 🙂 Thanks for the reminder. I lied there, lol. I’ve been able to go places I wouldn’t have otherwise.
Scoot Ross- always raising the bar and pouring in truth. This topic has flooded my mind in the last two months and I am so glad that I saved the original email when this came out so I could enjoy and read now. You are a boss and have mentored my life from a far in many ways and in many arenas. Thank you for all you have done and the thousands of unnamed who haven’t come forth and said thank you yet.
Thanks Anna! You bless me!